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Dec
28

Five Potential Benefits of Negative Blog Comments

Not all blog comments are loving, supportive and kind. Photo by R. Lewin

Not all blog comments are loving, supportive and kind. Photo by R. Lewin

It’s inevitable. If you put yourself out there on the web, you will eventually be the recipient of negative comments on your blog posts. Usually when you are least expecting it. So why allow negative comments on your blog post? A recent #Journchat discussion on Twitter had me really considering this issue.

Here are five things to think over before automatically clicking “delete” on a less-than-supportive comment:

1. Are they right? Do they have a valid point? Sure, you may not appreciate their tone or the way in which they said it, but sometimes a negative commenter may be making a logical point. Reexamine your blog post – did you leave something out? If so, thank the commenter for pointing out what you missed.

2. Can you Start a Conversation? I had an experience early on in the life of this blog where a commenter left a semi-rude negative comment. I did not delete it, but left it to stand and asked a few other writers what they thought. Wow! Did the conversation start!

3. What is the Potential for Engaging the Commenter? I have successfully turned negative comments into a guest post on the commenter’s blog by engaging them in a conversation. Sometimes that means following up with them on your response to their comment.

4. Does the Comment Add to the Post or to Your Blog? If someone leaves a comment on my blog and I feel it contributes something of value, then I will leave it. Even if I disagree with their particular decision.

5. Do you Need to Respond or Can you Leave it? Sometimes you make a stronger statement by allowing a negative comment just stand. Without a lot of knee-jerk response by you. It shows your confidence in your own point of view, and also allows your other readers to “come to your defense”. Much more effective than you seeming defensive.

Having said that, I don’t want anyone to think that this means I allow every comment submitted to my blog to stand. Far from it. Anonymous, porn, vulgar or profane comments are simply deleted without a second thought.

But negative comments? Well, I hover my curser over that delete button just a little longer and take a good, hard look at whether it’s really worth deleting or not. Sometimes even negative comments are of huge value to a blogger.

Dec
22

How Businesses Can Learn Online Skills

Marketing Skills are Essential for Modern Companies - Large or Small ~ Photo by Sanja Gjenero

Marketing Skills are Essential for Modern Companies - Large or Small ~ Photo by Sanja Gjenero

This has been the year of new steps for me. A year of profound growth in every area of my business. Volume, scope, reach, and more. In large part because I stayed open to learning new things – a vital attribute for success in today’s world.

You can imagine then how excited I was to be able to share some of what I have to offer, in partnership with Susan Payton of Egg Marketing and Public Relations by contributing to her Egg Marketing School online. I had never heard of these programs at all until Susan sent out a query for new instructors in her courses but I was impressed with the line-up of helpful marketing tutorials for businesses who want to grow their companies. Susan offers titles like “How to Build Media Relationships” and “Twitter Success in an Hour a Day” to those wanting to grow.

The newest released course in her line-up is the one that I wrote, “How to Use Keywords to Drive Traffic”. The price points on these courses are extremely reasonable and when you consider how competitive the economy will be in 2010, this is the perfect time to make sure you have all the tools and knowledge needed for success.

I believe that any entrepreneur looking to increase awareness about their service or product can benefit from these courses. Heading into the New Year it is important to not only set goals and dream big, but to equip yourself to be able to achieve those goals. For many businesses, large or small, that means learning how to function and be present online. How can you learn those skills? These online, self-paced courses are a fantastic place to start!

Dec
08

Update on Jaeli and Her Situation

I know it’s been awhile since I’ve updated you all on Jaeli and her family. Brandy and Jaeli went to Boston for a second opinion and that went SO WELL. Their nutritional specialist and GI doctors took Jaeli off all supplements and prescribed the breastmilk high-calorie formula. In fact, one of the short snippets of updates Brandy was able to give at the time, included a huge thank you for all of your generous donations and prayers.

Your prayers made it possible for the doctors to narrow down the source of Jaeli’s allergies to a corn allergy – which explains why all the supplements, even “hypo-allergenic” supplements, were still causing intestinal problems. Your donations have made it possible to know that Jaeli will be provided for with the high-calorie, nutritious breastmilk that she so clearly needs. Our efforts on Jaeli’s behalf meant that Brandy could rest in peace when the doctors tracked down the problem – and the solution. :-) Now it’s all documented and set in her medical files to avoid any other future problems. Yeah!

Jaeli recently celebrated her 6-month birthday, and has passed the 10-pound mark – both great milestones for her! She’s a trooper, that’s for sure. Keep her in your prayers. As always, you can continue to follow the updates on Jaeli via her Twitter account @RareChromoBaby. Please do pray for Brandy as her laptop is no longer working to internet time is more limited.

Blessings,

Angela <><

Dec
04

Ideas for Increasing Your Blog’s Traffic

This post is dedicated to Amanda. :-) We’ve all reached a point that feels like a plateau in our online career. Either the revenue is staling out, or the traffic isn’t climbing the way you think it should be, but either way it’s tough to feel like you’re just stuck. So here are some ideas for moving beyond the basic tricks of digg, stumble and tweeting your links.

Look For an Additional Platform

Increase Blog Website Traffic. Photo by Ilker

Increase Blog Website Traffic. Photo by Ilker

Some online sites accept content from writers and have the ability to help you build up your platform as being knowledgeable in a particular area. Sites like Examiner, Suite101, Type-A-Mom and Untrained Housewife all have specific columns or section areas where you can contribute articles. Use them to not only become more well-known online, but also create judicious links back to your main blog, articles, and posts. Most of these sites offer an additional bonus of revenue sharing or payment!

Create Outlying Related Posts for Incoming Links

A great way to do this is to use Hubpages, Squidoo or other sites for creating incoming links to specific posts and articles on your main site. Google looks at these deep links (links to a PAGE on your site vs to your main site) in addition to links to your main site and considers them important, especially when coming from a page with related content. You can see a sample of how I did this with an Untrained Housewife article using Hubpages.

This Hubpage is specific to how to use this recipe for Thanksgiving. Very seasonal, short and easy to write. Meanwhile, the main article on Untrained Housewife, shares the Christmas Chicken Recipe and a bit more general information about how I use it and why I like it. By using the Hubpage to point back to the main website I’ve told Google that not only is this a great recipe worth showing in the results, but it’s also relevant to Thanksgiving.

Additionally, the community at Hubpages will see what I’ve posted and give me the potential of new readers that would not have otherwise found my site. And that’s an important key – if you are always getting readers from the same exact places, those are the only readers you will have. I have done similar things with Squidoo lenses by gathering more than one article or blog post on a related topic, and link to ALL the posts from a dedicated lens.

Message Boards, Blog Comments and Community Sites

Almost every niche has message boards or forums dedicated to them, blogs on the subject, or community websites offering you the chance to meet others in the same niche. This can be a great way to not only find other bloggers for post exchanges or blog carnivals, but also to keep informed of the latest news, books, “celebrities” and happenings in the field. Often your forum signature and profile information can include links so don’t be afraid to include a link to your favorite or most poignant post! (Be sure to check the user agreements of each specific community and forum so you are abiding within their guidelines.)

Once you move beyond the basic bookmarking sites, you’ll find your reach, audience, knowledge and traffic increasing. Sometimes it’s all about broadening your horizons a little bit and looking past the obvious. See some additional ideas from @Moomettes great post 11 Ways to Drive Traffic to Your Blog